When you are served divorce papers, it can be a confusing and overwhelming time. You may feel blindsided by their decision or this could be something you had a feeling was going to happen. Regardless, understanding what to do after you are served is critical. The following blog explores what you should do when your spouse files for divorce and why it’s in your best interest to connect with an experienced Morris County divorce lawyer who can help you navigate these complicated issues and fight for your best interest.
If you are served with divorce papers, you will likely feel an overwhelming amount of emotions, regardless of whether or not you knew it was coming. As such, it’s important to understand that you can take some time to process these issues. However, you should read and respond to these matters in a prompt manner, as delaying can negatively impact you during the proceedings.
Generally, you will get two sets of documents when you are served. The first is the divorce complaint. This includes basic information about your spouse and your relationship, as well as the terms and conditions they are requesting from the court. These matters can regard child custody, alimony, or property division.
The other document you will receive is the summons. This informs you when you must respond to the complaint. It’s important to understand that you must not delay responding to the complaint, because it can negatively impact you. Failure to respond on time can result in your spouse being awarded a default judgment, which means they will receive the terms and conditions they asked for, even if you disagree. Generally, you will have 35 days from the date on which you are served to respond.
If you are served, the first thing you should do after carefully reading the documents is to connect with an experienced divorce attorney. Unfortunately, many people aren’t sure where to start when it comes to responding to this document. Not only can an attorney help you take the correct steps to respond, but they can also help fight for your best interest in these matters. They will explain the terms and conditions your spouse has requested in order to ensure you understand what they are asking for so you can either accept the terms and move forward with an uncontested divorce or if you want to counter some of the claims.
When you need help, Haber Silver Russoniello & Dunn can help. Our team understands the importance of fighting for the best possible outcome for you. Connect with us today to learn how we can help you through these difficult times.
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