
Alimony, also known as spousal support, is a complicated matter. In some cases, a spouse may refuse to pay court-ordered alimony. If this occurs, alimony payments may need to be enforced by a New Jersey judge. Read on to learn more.
Once alimony is ordered by the New Jersey court where your divorce is handled, it is mandatory. As such, a spouse who does not comply with alimony orders can face enforcement proceedings, which can result in financial and legal consequences. It is critical to understand that alimony obligations will continue until a court order terminates payments.
New Jersey law recognizes a number of different forms of alimony. Understanding the type of award is critical, as enforcement and modification can vary depending on the duration and structure of your alimony award.
When considering whether or not to award alimony to a requesting party in New Jersey, the courts are required to consider a number of factors in accordance with NJ Rev Stat § 2A:34-23. Judges and the courts will consider the financial needs, earning capacity, and standard of living established during the marriage, among other factors, when making a decision regarding custody.
To make a decision about alimony, a judge will examine the following factors:
If your ex refuses to pay court-ordered alimony payments, the court won’t automatically intervene, as it is not responsible for monitoring compliance. As such, the recipient spouse must file a motion to enforce compliance. These proceedings are generally conducted in the county court that issued the initial court order. Couples in Morris County will find their case will generally proceed through the Superior Court of New Jersey, Family Part, in Morris County.
In most instances, the recipient spouse must file a Motion to Enforce Litigant’s Rights in accordance with New Jersey Court Rule 1:10-3. As such, this motion will formally request the court to enforce compliance with current orders. The judge will review the evidence, determine if a violation occurred, and determine what measures are appropriate. If the paying spouse does not appear or provide a valid legal reason behind the non-payment, the court will enter these orders immediately.
In the event your spouse claims they are unable to afford alimony, it’s necessary to understand they still cannot simply stop paying without a court order terminating their obligation. As such, if their financial circumstances change, ultimately impacting their ability to make payments, they must file a motion for modification. However, until that motion is reviewed and the judge modifies the order, alimony payments remain enforceable.
New Jersey courts cannot change a court order simply because the paying spouse no longer wishes to make payments. Instead, the court will evaluate based on “changed circumstances” when reviewing requests. Commonly accepted changes in circumstances that warrant an alimony modification include:
If no motion has been filed, non-payment is treated as a violation of the court order.
If your spouse refuses to make alimony payments in accordance with your divorce settlement, it’s critical to take legal action with the guidance of an experienced New Jersey divorce attorney. At Haber Silver Russoniello & Dunn, we understand the impact that these matters can have. That is why we are committed to helping you fight for the best possible outcome during these difficult times. Connect with our firm today to learn how we can represent you.
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