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Child Custody Consequences of Alienation in New Jersey

Parental alienation can have a considerable impact on child custody arrangements in New Jersey. When one parent intentionally attempts to interfere with and damage the child’s relationship with the other parent, the judges in Morris County and across New Jersey take interference with custody seriously. Reach out to an experienced divorce attorney today if you believe you are being alienated by your former spouse. Continue reading to discover the consequences of parental alienation and what you can do to prevent it.

What Is Parental Alienation in Accordance with New Jersey Law?

Parental alienation is not a statutory crime in New Jersey, but the behaviors that constitute alienation often violate custody orders and can conflict with the best interest factors courts are required to consider. As such, the court will examine claims that a parent is unwilling to encourage a healthy relationship between the child and their other parent.

Common Examples of Parental Alienation

  • Continually making negative or false comments about the other parent to the child
  • Telling the child their other parent does not care about or love them
  • Telling the child that the other parent blames them for the divorce or separation
  • Interference with scheduled parenting time
  • Undermining the parental authority of the child’s other parent
  • Refusing to share important information, like educational or medical information
  • Encouraging the child to make false allegations
  • Pressuring the child to choose a side

When these behaviors arise, they can have significant impacts on custody, as they showcase a parent’s inability or unwillingness to co-parent effectively.

How Do New Jersey Courts Evaluate Parental Alienation Custody Cases?

In custody disputes that involve allegations of intentional parental alienation, New Jersey courts will examine whether or not the accused parent is willing to foster a relationship between their child and the other parent in accordance with the best interest standard established in NJ Rev Stat § 9:2-4. As such, the courts are required to consider whether or not either parent has engaged in behavior that interferes with parenting time, harms the child’s emotional development, or damages the co-parenting relationship. When a pattern is established, the courts may determine that the parent is not acting in the best interest of the child, which can have significant impacts on custody.

Best Interest Factors That Alienation Impacts

  • The parents’ ability and willingness to cooperate and communicate
  • The parents’ ability and willingness to accept the custody arrangement
  • Instances of unwillingness to allow parenting time
  • The interaction and relationship of the child with their parents and siblings
  • Any history of domestic violence
  • The child’s unique needs
  • Each parent’s ability to provide a stable home environment

What Are The Consequences Of Parental Alienation?

The act of limiting the other parent’s ability to spend time with their child is in violation of most custody orders. As such, the courts have broad discretion to enforce or modify custody orders.

Possible Legal Consequences

  • Enforcement in accordance with Rule 1:10-3
  • Court-ordered makeup parenting time
  • Mandatory counseling
  • Reunification therapy
  • Transfer of primary custody
  • Fines and attorney’s fees
  • Being held in contempt of court for willful violations

In cases of serious parental alienation, a Morris County judge may find that the alienating parent’s conduct is so severe that a restructuring of the custody arrangement must occur.

Enforcement and modification filings typically proceed through the Superior Court of New Jersey, Family Part, in the county where the initial custody order was issued. As such, families in Morris County will typically file with the Morris County Superior Court.

The judge may order mediation, appoint a guardian ad litem, or require psychological evaluations before modifying a custody order.

How to Prove Parental Alienation in Court

Because alienation can often take a subtle form, ensuring you have documentation and evidence is critical. The courts cannot make custody decisions based on allegations or anecdotal evidence alone.

The courts also recognize the emotional damage that parental alienation can have on children, as prolonged and ongoing exposure to hostility, conflicts, and manipulation can result in anxiety, depression, and other long-term harm for the child. As such, if evidence suggests that the emotional development and well-being of the child is at risk, the court is more likely to intervene on behalf of the child’s best interests.

Evidence That May Support Your Claim

  • Texts or emails showing interference
  • Witness testimony from family, teachers, or mental health counselors
  • School or medical records showing withheld information
  • Records of denied parenting time
  • Documented court order violations
  • Psychological evaluations, if ordered by the court

Steps to Take if You Suspect Parental Alienation

Prior to taking legal action, you may want to attempt to reach a resolution with your spouse outside of court. However, if this is not possible or interference continues, you should consult an attorney to discuss the next steps.

What To Do if You Suspect Alienation

  • Review the terms and conditions of your custody order
  • Document each instance with dates, times, descriptions, and evidence, if available
  • Avoid retaliation
  • Communicate in writing when possible
  • File a motion to enforce rights if interference continues
  • Request a modification of custody if you believe your child is at risk

Contact Our Experienced Morris County Custody Law Firm

At Haber Silver Russoniello & Dunn, we understand how difficult it can be when your spouse is intentionally interfering with and alienating you from your child. However, you do not have to navigate these matters on your own. Our dedicated legal team will examine your circumstances to help you fight for the best possible outcome for your unique circumstances. Contact us today to learn how we can represent you during these difficult times.

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