Can Parental Alienation Impact Child Custody in NJ?

Divorce is a complex matter, which can bring out the worst in people. Unfortunately, you may find that your spouse does everything possible to turn your child against you. Known as parental alienation, this can seriously damage your relationship with your child. If you are a victim, you’ll find that you may be able to hold your spouse accountable for the harm they’ve caused. Keep reading to learn how New Jersey family law attorneys can help you if you and your child are victims of this parental alienation and how this can impact custody.

What Is Parental Alienation?

Parental alienation is a form of manipulation in which one parent intentionally harms the relationship between their child and the other parent. This often occurs in instances where parents are no longer together. One parent may do this out of anger or resentment for the other, using alienation as a way to get revenge against the other parent to retaliate for the end of their relationship.

Some of the most common forms of alienation include, but are not limited to:

• Making direct, negative statements about you to or around your child
• Lying to your child (for example, telling the child you are mad at or do not care about them)
• Withholding important information from the other parent
• Making the child feel like they have to choose a parent
• Limiting the contact the child and their other parent have
• Undermining the relationship the child and parent have
• Exploiting the child’s emotions

Unfortunately, these behaviors can be severely damaging for all parties involved.

How Can Parental Alienation Impact Custody?

As a victim of parental alienation at the hands of your spouse, it’s important to understand that this behavior is not directly outlawed under New Jersey law. However, many behaviors of parental alienation are outlawed. For example, if your ex-spouse is violating your custody arrangement by refusing to allow you to see your child despite having a court order, you can take them to court for this violation. If your ex-spouse is engaging in other forms of parental alienation, it’s important to document these behaviors, as they can support your claims.

If your spouse’s violates the custody arrangement, you can file a motion with the court to hold them liable. When you file, you should include the other evidence gathered. Doing so can help prove that your spouse is purposely and maliciously trying to violate the court order. As a result, the courts may adjust the parenting schedule because it may no longer benefit the child.

At Haber Silver Russoniello & Dunn we understand how complicated parental alienation and child custody can be, which is why we are dedicated to fighting for the best interest of you and your child. Connect with us today to learn how we can assist you in these complicated times.