For many, divorce is a very emotional time. Both parties may experience grief, anger, and loneliness as a result of this action. However, while some may swear off dating for years after their divorce, others are eager to re-enter the scene and begin seeing other people. If you’re ready to look for love again, understanding why it’s imperative to wait until your divorce is finalized before you date is critical. The following blog explains why you should wait and how a Morris County divorce lawyer can help you navigate these complicated issues.
Though you are legally allowed to date while divorced, it’s important to understand that it’s not in your best interest to do so. While you may want companionship or may feel lonely, going on dates or entering a new relationship while your divorce is ongoing can have serious implications for the outcome of your divorce.
New Jersey still accepts fault grounds for divorce. As such, if you enter a new relationship while your divorce is ongoing, you may find that your spouse can claim adultery as the grounds for the divorce. While this may not have impacts on property distribution or alimony, it can complicate the divorce process, meaning it will take longer to resolve these matters as opposed to a no-fault divorce.
If you begin dating before your divorce has been finalized, you may find that your spouse can accuse you of marital waste. They may say that you’ve been unfairly using marital assets to pay for dates and outings with your new partner, which can result in your spouse receiving a greater share of property or being ordered to reimburse your spouse.
Once your divorce is finalized, you and your spouse are free to date or even remarry if you so choose. However, if you have children, you may find there are stipulations regarding new relationships in your divorce decree. This can include terms like waiting a certain amount of time before introducing new partners to children, limitations on overnight guests while the children are in the home, and your ex-spouse meeting the new partner before the children do. It’s in your best interest to work with your spouse and attorney to determine the best terms and conditions for your circumstances to ensure your children are comfortable.
As you can see, dating while in the middle of a divorce can have serious implications for you and your divorce. That’s why it’s strongly advised to wait until your divorce is finalized before entering a new relationship.
When you’re going through this time and need assistance, the team at Haber Silver Russoniello & Dunn can assist you with any questions or concerns about these matters. Contact our firm today to learn how we can help you.
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